A Problem of One’s Own: Single Mothering, Self- Reliance, and Care in the Time of the Coronavirus

Authors

  • Robin Silbergleid

Abstract

This essay uses my experience as an American academic single mother as a point of entry into a conversation about the particular complexities of single motherhood during the stay-at-home order. Although quantitative research indicates pressures on all families, single mothers—especially those with school-aged children or younger—are hit particularly hard, as there is no recourse to public school, paid childcare, or other forms of outside help during this time. The toll on mental and physical health due to social isolation, as well as an increased workload, is significant. What strategies and policies may help mothers cope? In the absence of respite by others, what does “self-care” mean for single mothers during this time?
A hybrid critical-creative, or auto-theoretical, piece, this essay braids together three strands: personal discussion of parenting while single during the stay-at-home order, an analysis of the heteronormative nature of academic work, and a reading of Virginia Woolf ’s A Room of One’s Own. In doing so, this piece uses the pandemic as a lens through which to explore maternal wellbeing in general as well as the fault lines of the heteronormative workplace and the ideal worker.

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Published

2020-12-07

How to Cite

Silbergleid, R. (2020). A Problem of One’s Own: Single Mothering, Self- Reliance, and Care in the Time of the Coronavirus. Journal of the Motherhood Initiative for Research and Community Involvement. Retrieved from https://jarm3.journals.yorku.ca/index.php/jarm/article/view/40609